We are not to speak badly or critically of our brother
We are not to speak badly or critically of our neighbor
Category: Neighbours & Brothers
Type: Negative
Form: Explicit
Source dataset: New Testament
Uniqueness: Not unique
Classical commandment: No
Applies to Person Categories: Not specified
Literal Application: Not specified
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This Mitzvah is referred to in Jewish literature as “ lashon hara ” – evil speech. Slander is a form of lashon hara but differs from it (at least in contemporary usage) in that lashon hara is any pejorative speech about someone (true or not) whereas slander is pejorative speech that is untrue. 28 Gossip is lashon hara only if the information being spread is negative. The above-referenced Scriptures have to do with the speaking of lashon hara , but what about giving a willing ear to it? I suggest that listening to lashon hara is also sinful – not with the tongue but with the ear – and perhaps is even more sinful than speaking it because the one who willfully listens to lashon hara becomes an enabler and a contributor to the sin of the one who speaks it. Here are two Scriptures that clearly show God’s attitude toward those who listen to the lashon hara of gossip: Proverbs 16:27 A worthless person digs up evil [gossip] – it is like scorching fire on his lips. Proverbs 20:19 A gossip goes around revealing secrets, so don't get involved with a talkative person. There are at least four exceptions to lashon hara . First, speaking negatively about a person is permitted when it is intended for the person’s good and is accompanied by godly wisdom and discretion. Miryam’s offense of murmuring against Moses in Numbers 12:1-10 was that she did not intend what she said to be for Moses’ good. Had she said instead .. “Aaron, I am worried about Moses because I think that marrying the Ethiopian woman was the wrong thing for him to do.” In the Hebrew Scriptures, “slander” is “rakiyl,” and in the Greek Scriptures it is “blasphemeo.” Translators use other English words for these as well (e.g. “talebearing”). her comment, while still critical of Moses, would have been intended for Moses’ good, and I do not believe she would not have been punished for what she said. The second exception to lashon hara is when our negative words about a person are meant for justice. A situation in which this occurs is when we give testimony against a person in a beit din or a secular court of law. Deuteronomy 19:15 anticipates this through its instruction: “One witness alone will not be sufficient to convict a person of any offense or sin of any kind; the matter will be established only if there are two or three witnesses testifying against him.” The third exception to lashon hara is when our negative words about a person are in response to our having a special responsibility to speak. An example would be reporting a crime or the abuse of a child, or a juror deliberating with other jurors. Sha’ul himself made statements that would be considered lashon hara had he not been imbued with special apostolic responsibility for the congregations he was overseeing; consider, for example, his comments about his fellow shaliach Kefa: Galatians 2:11-13 Furthermore, when Kefa came to Antioch, I opposed him publicly, because he was clearly in the wrong. For prior to the arrival of certain people from [the community headed by] Ya'akov, he had been eating with the Gentile believers; but when they came, he withdrew and separated himself, because he was afraid of the faction who favored circumcising Gentile believers. And the other Jewish believers became hypocrites along with him, so that even Bar-Nabba was led astray by their hypocrisy.” Also, Sha’ul “names names” in 1 Timothy 1:19b-20: “By rejecting conscience, some have made shipwreck of their trust; among them are Hymenaeus and Alexander. I have turned them over to the Adversary, so that they will learn not to insult God.” The fourth exception to lashon hara is when a person who is privy to pejorative information about a person legitimately needs counsel as to what to do with the information or how to respond to it. Husbands and wives are not prohibited from confiding in each other, but sometimes it is best to seek advice from a counselor, or a pastor or mature believer who has no prior knowledge of the parties involved. All speech (both complementary and critical) has spiritual power and can be used for both good and bad. It can bring comfort and it can distress; it can bring blessing and it can harm. As believers, our witness of Yeshua to those who do not know him requires that we be different than unbelievers, and one of the most noticeable ways of our being different is how we speak and how we respond to others who speak. Ridding ourselves of lashon hara is not an option – it is a commandment that we must take seriously.
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